What You Must NEVER Say if You Want to Get Her Back!

Have you broken up with your girlfriend and desperately want to get her back? You can do it, but first you need to know exactly what to say. There are some very specific things you need to say, as well as some very important things you must NOT say, in order to win her love again. If it’s been a while since you spoke to her (and really, you should wait at least a month after the break-up before you speak to her), you should sit down and write out what you want to say during your first phone call. This is your conversational plan. You’ve GOT to have a plan before you talk to her. Jumping in cold and not knowing what you’re going to say can lead to disaster!

When you DO call her, keep your conversation plan notes in front of you and use it as a guide while you speak. However, and this is EXTREMELY important—do NOT read straight from your notes, or it will sound like you’re talking from a script, which will be a major turn-off for her. Just use the notes as a guide to keep you on track.

During your conversation, make sure you avoid any of the following topics like the plague!

1) Don’t apologize for ANYTHING to do with your break-up.

2) Do not blame yourself for the break-up.

3) Do not blame HER for the break-up.

4) Do not beg her to take you back.

Doing any of these things during your first conversation will only drive her away again. Instead, keep it light and simple. Ask her how she’s been, tell her what you’ve been doing, and ask if she’s done anything fun since you last saw her. Don’t act jealous, no matter what she tells you! Act like her friend, because that’s all she wants you to be right now (if she even wants that!). Keep the conversation short, too—no more than 10 minutes is fine. That’s enough to lay the groundwork for your future reconciliation. If you’ve done it right, you can get her back and she won’t even know you were trying to!

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