Can I Get My Ex Back? You CAN, if You Know Exactly What to Do!

If you’ve recently broken up with your ex against your will, you’re probably wondering, “Can I get my ex back and keep her?” The answer is yes, but you’ve got to tread carefully and know exactly what you’re doing. After all, there was a reason you broke up, and those old problems will come back to tear the two of you apart again once you’re back together unless you’ve laid a firm foundation for future happiness with her.

The fact is, it’s easy to get her back, but repairing your relationship and making it stronger than ever takes a bit more work. However, if getting her back is important to you, it’s worth it! We know you don’t want to lose her again, or you wouldn’t be here. We’re going to walk you through it so you never have to say, “I want my ex back!” again!

First of all, you need to wait at least a month after the break-up before contacting her. She’ll need time to cool down and to miss you. When you DO call her, make sure to keep it brief and light, and avoid all hints of arguments at all costs! Any arguments at this early stage can doom your chances of getting her back.

Remember, the first phone call is easy. After the first phone call is when the real work of winning back your ex begins. If you’ve done it right, you’ve planted a seed in her mind of remembering the good times she had with you. Nostalgia, and the inevitable memories of your positive traits will soon fill her mind, and she’ll find herself wanting to call you. She may not be ready for the two of you to be a couple again yet, but she’ll want to hear your voice and be in contact with you. This works to your advantage.

Chances are, she WILL call you. When she does, keep it light, just like in the first conversation. However, if you see the conversation is going well and she seems receptive, now’s the time to make a subtle move. Casually ask if she’d like to meet you for coffee (or for lunch or for a donut or any kind of small meal) in the next day or two. If you’ve played your cards right, she’ll probably say yes.

Congratulations! You’re about to have your first face to face meeting since the break-up, and may never have to ask, “Can I get my ex back?” again!

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